4th of July that changed our world

 

Well, well, I guess its probably no surprise that I am late once again in posting my holiday doodad but this time I have a fairly legitimate reason! Once again I have good news about why and really, really bad news. The good news is that we got to hand deliver quite a few of them and some of them actually even made it in the mail on time. My husbands yearly company shut down happened right around the 4^th of July again so we were able to plan a trip back home.  We were keeping our fingers crossed that Covid would allow us to finally get back home and thankfully everything aligned and we got to keep our plans. This year my sister and her husband were actually able to be there at the same time so I got to see my whole immediate family this trip! We actually got to spend a whole week. We could have spent a few days more but we had to get back because the casino that we used to mix bands for on almost every weekend before covid hit finally opened up their new building and were finally able to get bands back in. So the day after we got back we got to work a band in the new casino that, not only was the first time that we had worked since covid but it was the first time a band had been on the new stage!

The shows went fairly well considering it was the first time the new room had ever been used and also the sound system and the lighting rig was a new system that we had never used before so not only did we have to learn a new room we had to learn new equipment. We did learn that we are both completely out of shape and it was quite difficult to work 2 full days/nights but I am sure we will get back into the habit fairly quickly.

 Now for the really, really bad news…The day after all that, we got the horrific news that my mother-in-law had passed away that morning on the 4^th of July. It was a complete shock because she was doing so well. We were very very thankful that we had just got to spend a couple of days with her a few weeks prior to that. It was the first time we had seen her since covid so it would have been even more difficult had we not been blessed with that time. Of all the people I send these holiday cards to I knew without a double that mom Pat appreciated them the most. She decorates for each holiday just like I do and she always made it a point to at least text me to thank me for them.

 I am absolutely crushed to be saying this out loud but unfortunately Pats card is one that I hadn’t gotten in the mail yet. While we were in Idaho we let the grandkids paint canvas bags and we had all the kids make one for Pat by each putting a painted hand on it and then printing their name next to it. None of the grand kids had actually been able to meet her in person but she had been sending holiday and birthday cards to each one of them.  I had planned to send the bag with the tatted card that next Monday so that means that Pat didn’t get to see the bag or the card.

 

I ended up making 14 of these cards but only 7 ended up getting sent out. I had the best of intentions to send them all out even though they would have been late but the horrific news really” took the wind out of my sails.” I found the idea for the flag from a picture I saw on Wandas knotty thoughts. I just kind of made up the counts for the flag and I just kept tweaking until I got it looking okay.  I don’t normally do holiday projects that take more than one round, but I am running out of ideas for these cards. It didn’t really take too long to make these and they were actually fairly easy to do. The blue is artiste thread called blueberry and the red and white are just a couple of balls I had gotten from Goodwill.

Obviously we are completely devastated and we are still trying to get back to at least a little bit of normal, or I guess I should say “the new normal for today” because I am quite certain that things are still changing due to Covid. Time seems to be just slipping by and it is crusing by faster and faster. I am quite certain that we will never be able to look at 4^th of July the same again but we are trying to take each day as the true gift that it is and we need to try to live it as such!